...following on from my previous post (titled: Please dont hate but...) we've had our long chat and he flirted and I went all weak at the knees!!!
I have listened to all of your advice and I agree with each and every one of you and that is the problem but the thing is married or not I am just sooo in love with this guy. He makes me laugh, knows what to say and not to say, understands my past, sex is great and I just love being with him. I asked him a load of questions like does he ever plan on leaving his wife to be with me and he said he had to think of me in all of that too and yes one day he will but not yet because he needs to get the timing right and make sure she doesnt think I am involved so that she doesnt have a come back on me. He is also thinking about his pregnant daughter and doesnt want to cause her any unnessesary stress which I can understand.... only problem is I have just found out that I am pregnant too with his baby. We discussed termination but neither of us can do that so we're looking now at adoption - who knows? I cant bring the baby up alone or like the situation we're in and he wants to end his marriage with his wife thinking it has just not worked rather than her thinking there is somebody else involved... well if we keep the baby together she will KNOW there is somebody else involved wont she...

... he says he loves me and I believe him thing is I know he loves his wife too