Hi there

I'm so glad that you've been able to heal things with your inlaws. The reality is, you've done your bit. Your kids have come around, you've initiated communication and its paid off. However, you can't force your husband to do the same. He's angry and he's hurt and its OK for him to feel that way. If you keep on pushing him, you'll run on the risk of stressing yourself out and pushing yourself into a low or high. He'll have no choice but to face them, afterall if you and your kids are seeing them, he won't be able to wriggle out of it all the time.

Let him work through his issues - give him time. Once he starts to digest that you've forgiven then, he'll come around. Just let him him know that you're there for him when/if he wants to talk about it. He stood by you and supported you, its your turn now to let him work through his issues

All the best
xx