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I know you must be hurting so badley over this. I would definitly talk to your T. I also think that due to your mothers control issues, the fact that you got back together with your husband left her feeling powerless (really bad feeling for a controller) and maybe a little hurt. I dunno. I just wanted you to know that I support you and will be sending some hugs your way.