Thanks for responding to my post. You are so right I should have got out months ago, but I was being so blind and didn't want to face the truth. I kept thinking that he was really going to change and I was really believing in him and everytime I got hurt at the end. Well I am tired of getting hurt by him or any man for that matter. I did break up with him, but he still tries to make contact with me all the time. He still wants to be with me and he won't leave me alone. I do know that he needs help. He really does. I thought that I could help, but you are right. I can't and it is up to him to want to help himself. I am going to do my best to stay away from him as much as possible. Thanks for all the advice. I hope to hear from you soon and again thanks!!!