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Originally Posted by Dwayne61
marjan,
I certainly wouldn't think your crazy to think about the same person over and over again. Although I'm not in a romantic relationship with the friend that I was telling you about, I still have a lot of thoughts about her. Hearing that your being strong in your situation gives me hope that I can, too.
Dwayne61
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Thanks for your reply....
We got to be paitent....I think I was always rushing to conclusion and make myself and others misrable....and wanting to know what will be in future for me....
Not sure, what has happened to me, but all of a sudden since Tuesday, I feel great....I don't think about him like before....and last night I went to my dance class, and my main reason was correcting my basic steps....I was a bit nervers, because I was thinking if he's there or not....mostly, when he wasn't in the class before, I was getting sad....but last night, he wasn't there and I was absolutly fine....even better than before....My teacher worked on my basic steps and I felt that I accompolished something good....I felt great coming back home...Tonight, I'm going to my class too....
I think all happiness and sadness is state of mind....we can train our mind how to behave and what to think about....meditation is really helping me during the day....
In your case, losing your freind is painful...sometimes, it's more painful to lose a friend than a partner....but give her a time, she will be back to you...this is base on my own experience...sometimes, it takes long to get back together....
with love
Marjan