Really good points, both. I tend to email T what happens during the week, since i can't talk about them. So last night, t actually asked me to check in and see what thinks i might be thinking about in the week from our session. ironically, what came to mind was a topic i covered in an email and was avoiding.... so i told her that i was still avoiding it and there fore, no point in talking about lol! We were in a different room than usual and she didn't have my emails to look at - awww shucks!