I know it is really hard when you want something so much, but you have kids to worry about too. If you start playing a little hard to get you might find him getting more interested in what you are up to. You need to set boundries for yourself. Would you allow someone you were not interested in treat you this way? AAAAA is right if he came over to your house to "see" you and got on your computer that is rude. You deserve better than that. There is someone out there who wants to spend time WITH you and not just at your house. Learn to respect yourself and your time, which is valuable and others will respect you too and you won't end up with someone who just wants to use your computer. They have computers at libraries tell him to go use those before he comes over.