I'm sorry you're having to deal with this. I just wanted to remind you that him not wanting sex has nothing to do with you (ie it's not your fault), but you may have to sacrifice in this area of the relationship. I have a difficult time with this issue because I am on meds and I would be fine with sex every two months. Obviously this is not ideal for my husband and I feel really guilty because of it. I try to have sex with him at least once a month but it is very difficult to get myself going even though sex does feel good. Also, if he is trying to get me turned on it is an instant turn off. I'm sure he is struggling with this issue just as much as you are. I wish I had answers for you. Just try to remember that commitment is the most important thing in a relationship. You can't count on sex to maintain a relationship.