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Originally Posted by AAAAA
I'm sorry, I still don't see that the problem is yours, at least not in the same way you do. He doesn't have internet so rather than spend a romantic evening with his girlfriend he's surfing the web? He's treating you very poorly and instead of saying get out I deserve more than this you're blaming yourself for being too needy. You may be needy, I don't know since I don't know you but I don't think what you're asking for is unreasonable. In fact you're willing to settle for one night a week of what you want to do and the rest of the week it's his choice? Where is the compromise?
At the risk of sounding harsh, if he'd had sex with you that night I'd think he saw you as a booty call with internet privledges. But the way you've posted he doesn't even want the sex. What exactly are you getting from this relationship?
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He really is good at evreything but the physical part of it... He plans stuff for us to do on the weekends with the boys. Since their dad doesn't take them much. We went to drag races last weekend for my older son. And he kept saying he was probably gonna go out with his friends for the fourth but he came here instead so we could take both the boys to the fireworks. He has taught my oldest to make sandwhiches. He will look for sea glass on the beach with me, and build sand castles with the boys. Some sunday morinings he gets up with the boys so i can sleep in.
I dunno maybe i just expect too much from him. Maybe he's just not as affectionate of a person as i thought he would be and he's perfect with everything else, and i should be happy.