RC~
Hi. I may have a bit to inclued here.
Do you have a dog? Sometimes taking your dog on a walk can open some doors. Taking it to a park where there are other's there. Sparking up conversations of common grounds can prove to be a fantastic way of breaking that ice.
Also, check at your local library. Many of them usually have a bulletin of community events/gatherings for just about anyone to become involved in. And the variety of what they offer is quite vast.
Volunteer work is also a great way to meet "great" people. I've done just that at the local animal shelter. Gave me the opportunity to not only care for those precious animals, but to meet some fantastic people, as well. In fact, in most cases regarding volunteer work, you're bound to run into people with a compassionate nature. Thery're there for the reason to help and to care....what better people to surround yourself with?
I hope that helps you some. And the days of lonliness subside for you.
Take care...
Shangrala