But it brings up a very valid and important point for you to concider Jenn, if this a serious relationship the financial burden doesn't decrease with time, it increases. Your future is important these ugly realities need to be explored. __________________

You should really think about this. You don't have kids, and you would really be sacrificing a lot for someone else kids. I'm not trying to upset you, but if this was me I would have a hard time being with him, because he's not starting the process with his divorce, kids, and all that kind of stuff. When I first meet my bf he failed to tell me that he had his now ex with him. I was like I don't do that kind of stuff. If you want me that whole entire relationship has got to be over with. You need to stand up for yourself Jen. You can get another guy. One that is single without all that baggage. You know what else when I read your one post about the friend he should have said something to that other girl. Ya I know that I told you to not to mess with her, but he should have intervened, and told her to leave you alone. Jen I'm so sorry this is hard for you, but the truth is that you deserve so much better than this. Why settle for less if you don't need to.