It can take awhile for people to respond to posts. We all like you, dont take it personaly it just takes people awhile to respond to all these posts.
I would say to be open and honest with her and say how you feel. I would ask her just what you asked here. I know it won't be easy but you will at least know how she feels and where you stand. I wish you good luck with it.
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