Wow , that would blow my mind ! I am sorry that you have been hurt this way ! I agree with above posts that her "control" was lost when you did something she didnt like. I just hope she isnt up to some more "controlling", and comes up with something like "I might move back IF you leave your husband for good"...........my response if that were to come up would be to tell her to enjoy her new home ! Gosh , parents can be so mean !