AAAAA how is your daughter now? I would say that is some crappy friend she has. I mean did have. The thing that gets me about it, is that the other girl already knew that the rumor was going around. Instead she blames your daughter for telling her the source. I agree your daughter should respect your rules because she does live with you. I have a daughter who is 17 and she will be 18 in a few months, and of course she likes to argue, so I do know how you feel. Sometimes when I try to talk to her it's like talking to a brick wall. Then she tries to twist everything I say. Maybe it's just this age.