Hey Abbi !
I was told I was Bipolar for seventeen years then three years ago I was told I was Borderline personality disorder ! And .........Wait for it .........
Hubby is Mulitiple personality

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I have five children by my first marriage and one with hubby (he is a pain in the backside four year old who rules the house lol)
Yes its hard but in a way easier as we are both aware the other has problems and we both have to give and take as and when needed.
We have been together for seven years and to be honest adore each other still and it is getting better all the time as we each learn more about each other.
If I can be of help in any way give me a shout !