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Old Jul 11, 2009, 09:17 PM
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Just wanted to show my sincere agreeance (think I made that word up, but it works) with Sabby, True in every word.

Eliminate all triggers for sorrow, and just deal. The hurt will go away, just give it time. Don't allow it drag over time.

Try and plan things to look forward to. I also find that if there was anything you could not do before because of the relationship, now is the time, maybe it was dance lessons, or anything like that.

Good luck with the process

0ldsoul
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Let me not pray to be sheltered from dangers
but to be fearless in facing them.
Let me not beg for the stilling of my pain
but for the heart to conquer it.
Let me not look for allies in life's battlefield
but to my own strength.
Let me not crave in anxious fear to be saved
but hope for the patience to win my freedom.
Grant that I may not be a coward,
feeling Your mercy in my success alone;
But let me find the grasp of Your hand in my failure.
*bengali poet - rabindranath tagore - 1916
Thanks for this!
hoping4best