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Originally Posted by dotbar
Something else to think about: If you join a club or sign up for some kind of classes, you will be mixing with generally stable, non-needy people who can participate in an equal, give and take relationship. I find that having a mix of friends who are needier and require more attention as well some who can hold their own is a consideration in balancing out my own emotional/mental reserves.
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This sounds like good advice for me. I've never had a lot of friends to associate with. Having a variety would be better. But since I tend to isolate a lot, it does seem kind of scarey. I'll just have to work on it.
I admire your determination to get out there with the younger women and learn to dance!