((((((((((Tomi))))))))))
As William always says..."yup - that's my job" LOL of course he says it when I say that he is driving me bonkers
Maybe it's time to write another letter? Send it to me if you want....from what she told John...it seems she is trying to blame someone (you) instead of looking at it as her own problem. That must be so frustrating to you

Was she ever in therapy?
I am so glad to have connected with you again....true friendship never goes away does it?
Take care of yourself today
Love you xoxo