Thanks 0ldsoul,

You could be right. I never thought of that. It doesn't seem like I took that kind of tone with her, but she might have seen it differently.

I just remembered something else. When we talked on the phone right after this happened she mentioned something else I said.She said that she told me again that she didn't have any money and I replied "That sounds about right." I don't recall saying that, but with a lot of things my memory isn't that great. Thinking about her telling me this leads me to believe that you could be right about the tone of my voice and how she took it. But right after she told me this, I started realizing that sometimes that's just one of the phrases that I say a lot without really thinking about it. I think that if I did say that, I didn't mean anything by it.