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Originally Posted by jerrymichele
Zen I wouldn't give her the time of day anymore either. I also have a sister who is somewhat like this. I refuse to speak to her, because she is a very controlling person, and talks crap about people behind their backs. Yes I love her, but there just comes a time in a person's life when you get fed up and say enough is enough! I also can't be around her because of my panic disorder. So Zen if she makes your anxiety worse than what it already is then I would say leave her alone.   |
Hi jerrymichele
Yes, my anxiety does go up when I am with her or on the phone talking to her. It's just such a shame that she is such a wonderful person on the one hand and on the other she shows signs of OCD behaviorism. I think distance is the key for me right now. Confronting her would be pointless it wouldn't bring us closer together. Just re-read the list of things that upset me about her and you start to develop some insight on what it must be like to be her and to have her as a friend.
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