Please tell him to go visit your folks. Please, please. (((hugs)))

The best thing to do for him is to take good care of yourself.

Remember your boundaries. -He- is responsible for his feelings and behavior.

Remind yourself that you are strong. You are strong, even amidst pain and trauma. You deserve a home that is a sanctuary, for you.

Be a role model for him by taking good care of yourself. This is a gift to him, whether he accepts this gift is his choice.

Sarah