is there something to the med that makes you guys not want it? we stopped taking a med because when even one dose was missed the body was groggy for a few days, and the same thing when it was taken again. so yeah, not a good med. the last time someone decided it was not even really needed. is that what's going on? if yes, then it might need a bit more work unfortunately - it sometimes takes a while to see that yes, most are depressed and medication has/might make a difference.