Trust your instincts my sweet, but put a time limit on the anger and hurt(do not linger there longer than necessary-it will create much resentment)......the road to forgiveness is paramount for healing, for you not for her.

It may turn out that you shall be friends again, but if you are sick of feeling like the one who is in the wrong, then I imagine this is not the first time you have felt this way......you do not need to feel that, it takes two to tango, babe. As much as it is your responsibility to communicate, so it is hers as well. This is not your fault, nor is it hers. All you have to ask of yourself is "Does this person look after my spirit, even though we don't have to agree on everything?" If the answer is no, then it is time to move on. Life is too short to waste on people who do not guard your spirit as well as you do.

Be kind to yourself, forgive her for her hostility(she is acting to protect herself as well) and create some distance to receive clarity.......it will come......

We are here and take good care........