Hi I'm a 30 yr old lesbian and have been with my 23 yr old partner for about a yr and a half, the problem is she has recently told me about some of her sexual thoughts and I don't know how to handle the info I was told so I'm hoping you guys can help me.

She said that she used to go online and look at gay male porn and masturbated to it (she did this quite often), also she looks at men in the groin region quite often (she says that she just wonders what is there), she also used to do cyber sex with both men and women.

She has never had sex with a man and says she never wants to but I am so scared that one day she will want to explore that option. we have a healthy sex life and I know she is turned on by women I am just worried that she is also turned on by men. Can you please help me.