Dot you should really listen to AAAAA and SE. I also think that you need to somehow tell your husband about your needs. If you need more in the bedroom then TELL HIM!!! I also think this school you go to isn't healthy for you. Why not transfer to another school where you will not see him. IMO I think that you fell in love with the sex this man gave you. Something that you need from your husband. They do have sex therapists. Think about this, if he lied to you about this girl, just think about what else he could do to you. I'm not trying to be harsh, but this man clearly does not care about you, and he probably doesn't care about the other girl either. Even though your hurt, you shouldn't worry about him being with another girl, or how he went about doing it. He's a pig. IMO I would say that he uses women for his own bennifit. This man has nothing to offer you at all, but a bunch of heartache.