hi........i noticed that LMo had a true story about "timing".....i'd be so surprised if the "timing" ever gets right, with this man. there are many, many couples who want to adopt a baby, please consider that...do not let him make the decision. he's not going to be there, make a decision for what is best for the baby (FIRST) and you........and use birth control.

none of us hate you, we're just being realistic and trying to help you see what is down the road, most likely, for you and this man. AND don't HATE his wife. that's ********. it's all about him....xoxo pat