I have to say that it is probably best for your daughter to remain where she is at the moment if the family she is staying with is truly trying to help her get her life straighten out.... the less chaos your daughter has to deal with right now may indeed give her the time she needs to think things through... after the mental stress of family life has calmed down.

Wanted YOU to know:
That I am truly sorry for all the pain you are going through and my hearts feels for you as a mother.... ((( hugs ))).