I wrote this long post to explain why things are bad for me. However my husband erased my post. He didn't want me to tell the truth or his business. So his my dilemma. I cannot get my husband to understand that he is neglectful. Five years in and still haven't received one good present. He's neglectful to me and our one year old daughter. Now what am I to do. I don't want to be married any more. I don't want him to have custody of our child. He is not made right. My daughter knows he's a bad daddy. She wont go to him. She cry's and throws her weight to the floor when he try's to take her. There are so many things I cannot name off. I don't believe in divorce but I don't want my daughter being around a lazy man. I don't want her to know how bad of a father he is. I would like to just pack up and leave. However I don't have any where to go.Do I leave him and wrong my beliefs or do I stay with him and hope he will change? I cant take living like this any more I'm at my wits end. My daughter deserves better. He promised no smoking no cussing. He has not held any promise to me. Always brakes them no matter how important or how petty. No counseling will not work. No family don't care. No therapy is not an option.