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turquoisesea · Jul 15, 2009, 08:21 AM

I just wanted to respond to one thing in your original post

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. i am uglier than anyone i have ever seen. i shun mirrors..
so im basically worth jack all to my boyfriend because, lets face it, physical attraction seems to be the only thing guys care about.

First off, physical attraction may be the only thing LOTS of guys care about, especially at your age, but it's not the ONLY thing they care about. And some guys will care TONS more about other thing than physical attraction. From what you've said before, your boyfriend is being pretty acceptant of your depression and general situation, and he does seem to really care about you - so I don't know how that would fit in with you being "worth jack" to him

It sounds like he sees something in you that you can't see right now.

And as far as being uglier than anyone you have ever seen.... well I dunno about that. Remember that depression lies to us. Now, I haven't seen a picture so I have no idea what you really look like but I seriously doubt you are the ugliest I've ever seen. And as far as weight,... I didn't quite catch what you weight /height is but they are just numbers and it's easy to look just at that.

Sending hugs