Thread: ran into an old friend
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Old Jul 15, 2009, 10:56 AM
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I don't know what the ages and maturity level here is, but if applicable, I think you should be honest with yourself and the other guy. Talking about feelings and thoughts is a good thing, as long as the other person can be honest and open about their thoughts and feelings also.

I would tell both guys how you are feeling about them, and tell your boyfriend how you feel about this other guy, that maybe you need some time to explore your feelings to be sure you want to be with him and not with this other guy. Ask yourself what you would want your boyfriend to do if he was feeling this way about another girl?

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I'd rather have a visit, note or pretty picture
than an "I'll say a prayer" or a "god bless you."
Doesn't make me feel better, no meaning to me for sure.
Can't stop you from praying and blessing me,
and if that makes you feel better feel free.
But keep it to yourself please, don't tell me.
And let's all respect each other's feelings.
With kindness, support and "sweet dreamings."
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Thanks for this!
bailey193, Shangrala