Pom, Thank you. I am trying hard not to give up on myself. Luckily I've found a good T that won't let me give up that easily.

Shangrala, Your story sounds so much like mine. I am sorry for your divorce, but you are standing up for what you need and I commend you for that. I can only hope that I get that strong to offically say enough is enough if he continues to be so unwilling to change and get help.

Thank you both for your support!