As you said it takes two to make it work. Since therapy will only work if the person is willing to participate, you cannot force, guilty, beg, etc anyone else to go. You have to do what’s right for yourself. Hopefully he’ll be able to see the benefits vs. the cost (ie your marriage) but if not, you and your child must be your first priority.
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