Honestly, I don't really think I want to be more than FWB right now. It just won't work out for the situation I have with him. The reason that I had sex with him, and continue to do things like that with him is because I see him as someone I could be with in the future, after college. I wanted to establish my relationship with him as something more than friends, but not a relationship. I am not mature enough, nor do I know myself well enough to be in a relationship for a while. But he's been doing things like wanting to take a nap with me, and falling asleep on my shoulder, and wanted me to scratch his back and whatnot that have nothing to do with sex and make me think that he sees me as more than just a friend with benifits. Which is, I guess, what I wanted. But I'm a little bit afriad now that he wants to be close to me. I'm begining to think that the reason I liked him was because of how closed off he was at first, and how difficult he made things. Now that he's giving in, and he seems to want to be with me and actually be atracted to me for the first time in the five years that I've known him I really don't know what to do.