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Originally Posted by Dwayne61
Marjan,
Thank you again for your support. What are some of the books you have read?
I went to a movie this afternoon with my niece. A large part of the time, my mind was nagging at me about what to do concerning my friend. I even thought I saw her at the movie, but it wasn’t her.
We had met at a program for group and individual counseling. Wednesdays are when she usually goes, so I thought I’d see her today. But she wasn’t there. Off and on all day I’ve been mentally going down the list of different things to do about this. Send her the letter, try calling her again, wait and see her at group sometime… Next month is her birthday. I could send her a card and the letter then. Or not even try to contact her at all.
The only real decision I’ve come up with is that I need to decide on something to do and just do it. Stop questioning myself. It’s driving me nuts.
The thing is, if she and I resolved our differences and became good friends again, I still have issues that are liable to interfere with the relationship again. Plus, she has issues that I have a hard time accepting.
Dwayne
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I'm just finishing the book called "Joy of Life"....It was fantastic, but it's about Buddhism, not sure if you are into it....There are plenty of books....
but honesty, if this is bothering you this much, why don't you pick up the phone right now and be honest with yourself and your feelings and tell her what you are killing yourself for....then you are this way or that way....
can I ask you how old you are?
besides, you are not alone in these kind of situation....I can't stop thinking about what has gone wrong with my ex boyfriend....if you read my postes, you will see how much obsess I am with him, although, I don't feel love for him at all....I think the part of rejection is bothering us...that's all! I say that, because before, when I broke up with him, I was okay and he was the one who was persuading me to get me back, then he did, then he dumped me....now I'm kinda pissed, but I don't persuade him....I just think why every single relationship that I go it goes to garbage....I was thinking this one would be good....but well...it wasn't!
by the way, there is another cool book you can read, it is called "Zahir"....it's about being obsess about another person and think about her all the time.....
with love
Marjan