Shangrala if you love the man than so be it. I was very young when I got married, and yes statistically me and the ex fell into this category. I even had people telling me don't do it, but did I listen? no. I wasn't to concerned with numbers or what other people had to say. This is a good example of when you go eat at a restaurant, the cook already knows that he can't please everybody. You live your life the way you want to live it. If you find someone who can't except it, than that is their issue, not yours.