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Old Jul 15, 2009, 11:32 PM
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Originally Posted by Shangrala View Post
Thank you SO much, Marjan.
You are the, "Live and let live"...Obviously, NOT of the majority. It's replies such as yours that reinforces the good to be had...in any given situation.

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Shangrala
No problem....I used to be so stricked about everything....I think that's why I missed so much opportunities in my life....life is so short to be so stricked on it....I remembered that my sister used to date a guy 5 years younger than her and we were all disagreed with her....she was in her late 20s when she stop dating him and then she found somebody online and got married and have two kids now....her current husband is same age as her....but I think she loved the ex boyfriend.....and the ex boyfriend got married with my sister's friend....I can't even imagine how much pain she would felt although she was married already.....
sometimes, I blame myself partually for her break up with that young guy...and then I start dating a guy 4 years younger than me and got even married with him....
life is a true mistry, and we are the victims....
Actually, I found out I'm more into younger guys than older ones....I get more connected with young guys or the ones that are in my age, because I'm so hyperactive, but interesting that my ex husband who was four years younger than me had very little sex drive and he was not active at all....I wasted so much of my life with him.....but that's what it is...you got to pay the price to get the experience!
take care of yourself and don't let others get into your personal life....as long as you are happy and he is happy that's important....
with love
Marjan
Thanks for this!
Shangrala