I have been with my boyfriend for one year. For most of the first 10 months we lived a few hours away from each other. We are now in the same city In the last 2 months, our sex life has ALL BUT stopped. We used to have sex every other day at least. And it would be quite a long session. He used to not be able to keep his hands off me. Now everything about sex is null and void. He no longer feels like my boyfriend, more like my best friend. I am so in love with him. I have spoken to him about this and in the beginning of the decline, he simply said he was 35 and not in his sexual prime and that now that we are in the same city, he doesn't feel like we have to cram sex in and that he saw no problem with 3-4 times per week. It was hard to swallow, but I accepted it. The problem is that was an UNDERSTATEMENT. We now have sex MAYBE once per week for MAYBE 2 minutes. He makes me feel like it is a chore and said that I am confusing sex with love. I KNOW he is not cheating, however he doesn't seem to care that I need intimacy. It really irritates him when I speak to him about it. I would completely understand if I wanted it every morning and evening, but if I am honest with myself, I NEED it more than 2 minutes once per week. As much as sex is NOT love, it is a big part of a relationship that separates good friends from "lovers". I can't help but feel unnatractive to him, and my gut tells me that something (other than cheating) is wrong. It really blows my mind and it really frustrates me. I want him and only him, but I DO NOT want to feel like a best friend only. I can remember being so shy I wouldn't let him see me in the shower or walk around naked, now I TRY to do so, just to get his attention, and he doesn't so much as turn his head!!! Please help!!!