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Jul 16, 2009, 08:13 AM
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Member Since: Sep 2007
Location: Colorado
Posts: 9,092
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I understand what you're saying. I've been in similar situations - sometimes you're just not up to dealing with people. That's ok.
And boy can I understand about your boss - mine couldn't care less if I have plans... if I say I'm not available he might schedule me anyways and refuse to help me switch out with someone else. And an hour before a shift he might call me and tell me not to come in. Or the day I'm off might call and say "we need you". Bosses can be annoying and it's brutal because there's not much you can do - you want to keep your job you know?
erm anyways. but about the friend. Maybe it wouldn't be so bad to explain that you'd be really tired on a friday, that maybe they could come and drive you to their house (if the house is closer?) or someplace that would EASY for you, in a situation that was comfortable. That way you don't have to be letting down the friend and it makes it easier for you. It's not wrong at all to say "I'm sorry, I really will be too tired to come meet you, it's nothing personal, it's just that physically I don't think I can do it".
sorry about the ramble I'm a bit out of it. 
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