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Jul 16, 2009, 08:44 AM
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Member Since: Sep 2007
Location: Colorado
Posts: 9,092
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i apparently have no "real problems" anyway.
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Who said that? The problems YOU feel you have are real. What YOU feel is real. Just because someone ELSE says they aren't real, doesn't make them go away. It's like telling someone drowning in water that there's no problem, they don't see the water so it's not there. People can't see inside your mind. Maybe they can't SEE the problems. YOU can. They are there, they are real.
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i keep posting, i know i should probably just stop, i don't deserve all of your compassion or advice or care or pity.
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This place is open for everyone. For what it's worth I think you're deserving. I try to check all your posts  , I care about you, I want to see your posts.
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theres only one way out. and im not allowed to take it.
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Yes. That's seems to be a way out. It's the only way out that YOU CAN SEE. That does NOT mean there isn't another way. I have been through a patch (and a pretty long one at that) where I did not see the way out either. You'll have to trust me on this one, that there are other wayS out, (yes, more than one) that you can't see right now. 
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stop feeling sorry for yourself
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GUILT TRIP.
I got one from my Mom today too. Basically calling me ungrateful and mean... for getting up early to drive her to the train station and asking if it was ok to stop for coffee on the way.
I know guilt trips all too well. Please try to fight the words because you're not horrible for feeling sorry for yourself, for wanting better. There's NOTHING wrong with that.
sending so many hugs, please do keep posting
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Yesterday I was so clever, so I want to change the world.
Today I am wise, so I am changing myself.
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