((((((((((((((( Shangrala & Kristian )))))))))))))))))))

May you both find the love and happiness that you deserve. Having been married to a man 21 years my junior, I can attest to how well things can go. Having been married 3 times in my life, I can also attest that no matter what the age of your spouse compared to you, it either works or it doesn't for whatever reason.

If we all lived our lives according to statistical numbers and findings we certainly would be missing out on many different experiences in our lives. Some people may be happy to live that way as it may afford them a sense of security. I, personally would rather live my life with open eyes and mind to be able to experience all that I can before I leave this world. As the old saying goes, "nothing ventured, nothing gained". Even if an experience doesn't turn out to be the best, there are still lessons to be learned from that experience that can certainly be positive.

I wish you both the best Shangrala. I pray that your immigration experience goes so much better than mine did. I realize now that we went about things improperly and it really hurt our chances of getting him here. Lesson learned: research research research!! LOL

Be well!

sabby