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Originally Posted by Timgt5
Hopefully I can make a suggestion. Is it perhaps that he may be simply bored with what the 2 of you normally do. Maybe try something a bit different, some role playing, maybe a little light bondage,
and sometimes it can be things you do out of the bedroom as well. Maybe cook him a meal that you do not normally eat at home. Offer a massage with scented oils... and so on. Sometimes guys are more receptive if they feel the partner is doing things for his pleasure as well as hers and vice versa..
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Tim I wish it was that easy. It's been over month since we've had sex so I know it's not that he's bored, and I'm more "adventurous" than he is anyway.... We don't live together and i have kids... And he lives an hour drive away. I do make him dinner everytime he is here. And i will rub his back and scratch it and all that. He just says he has no libido.... And that even he doesn't understand why he is affected this way.