Pink lotus thank you agin for your help. I didn't really think about him being able to get them from a clinic. I dont know if they have that here... Mostly the health department clinics are just for Birth control and that stuff. But I know he wanted to go back to his Dr for the support part of it too. And now i wonder if the mental health department could at least help with that part of it for him. He has no health insurance through his employer so that's knid of keeping him from going. And any state plan here even if you are paying th premiums don't cover substance abuse programs. Which really sucks... He is very good with my issues too, he doesn't really get mad at me never yells when we get in arguments, and he's awesome wiht my kids, so yeah I will keep supporting him. I just hope it gets easier soon.......Oh by the way no one else in his family or group of friends know that he relapsed onto the pain meds and is taking this stuff again. So he only has me to help him.