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The hardest part, no matter how much evidence and support I & her therapist have backing us up, she still is so hard on herself about it. It breaks my heart and saddens me to think that if 23 years ago when we meet, if it had been addressed then, how much of our life would we not have missed.
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Thank you So much. It's so true. I have SO much guilt over this s**t and I blame myself over and over and I have to sop if I want to get better. T is working with me on it.
Christina, I never did end up bringing it up with T (well not in much detail anyway). I worked on the letter for him for a week and had it in my bag for 2, and never got up the guts to give it to him. Aside from that though, he has helped me make some progress!
I heart him.
I don't feel quite so sick and twisted about this now as i did when I originally posted this.
Thanks for the replies!