So now we have thrown a whole new thing into our issues. He's finally telling me he's depressed, that he doesn't feel like caring about anything. And that he's not sure if this is a good time for him to be in a relationship. but he says he doesnt want to hurt me he's just telling me how he feels. i told him i cant take us breaking up and that i will support him. I asked if im being selfish by wanting to keep him, and he's says it not selfish to want what i want..... I just really hope we can make it through this. Because when i think about it being over my heart just breaks and i'm crying while i'm writing this. I need help i need to know how to help him....