My bf is finally admitting he's depressed. He said a couple weeks ago that he doesnt know why but since his birthday he's been so tired, etc... Well that was about 6 weeks ago. We've been having issues with our relationship. And he finally told me tonight he's not blaming me this is all on him he just doesn't feel like caring about anything anymore... He says he feels like he is in a downward spiral and he thinks he's getting depressed. He feels like maybe this isn't a good time for himto be in a relationship. But he doesnt' want to hurt me he's just telling me how he feels. Now granted everytime we've had a problem he wouldn't tell me this before he just said he didnt know what was wrong. I want to know how to help him feel better. I know he's not going to go to a doctor. He has no insurance and no extra cash to get to a doctor. I already told him I care so much for him and I will be here to support him and that I want him to feel like himself around me and that I won't push anything with our relationship on him. That I just want him to be happy and I want him to be able to talk to me. All this stuff hurts me so much that i"m crying for him. I told him I dont want to break up with him, and asked if I'm being selfish for trying to keep him. He said he doesnt think its selfish to feel the way i do. I just want to help him I want to get him back to where he used to be..... What can I do??