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I posted in another forum to you about this. Reading here, it really sounds like you are trying to hang on to him. Maybe if you step back and give him some space things will get better between the two of you. You can't force someone to want to be with you. He may just not have enough courage to come out and say he wants to end the reltionship, or take a break from it. He did say he does not feel like he should be in a relationship at this time. You should respect that, respect his feelings. Love is doing what is right for the other person, love isn't just making yourself happy. I don't mean to sound harsh but you are hurting him and yourself if you keep trying to hang on to him or fix him when he is indicating he does not want that.
Perhaps you should spend some time thinking about why you need to be in a relationship with him so badly?
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