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Originally Posted by Pomegranate
I posted in another forum to you about this. Reading here, it really sounds like you are trying to hang on to him. Maybe if you step back and give him some space things will get better between the two of you. You can't force someone to want to be with you. He may just not have enough courage to come out and say he wants to end the reltionship, or take a break from it. He did say he does not feel like he should be in a relationship at this time. You should respect that, respect his feelings. Love is doing what is right for the other person, love isn't just making yourself happy. I don't mean to sound harsh but you are hurting him and yourself if you keep trying to hang on to him or fix him when he is indicating he does not want that.
Perhaps you should spend some time thinking about why you need to be in a relationship with him so badly?
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He was just telling me he's starting think that maybe he shouldn't be in a relationship but told me today that we're not breaking up....
Personally I think he does want help and he just has no where to turn.
I need to be with him because i've fallen so much for him and I care so much for him and I seriously worry that if I let him push me away he's gonna fall way too deep into this. None of his friends or family know what is going on and he won't tell them. I want him to know that i care and i will do anything to make us get through this. I really don't think that by trying to help the person you are with hurts them. Don't you think that sometimes a person gets so depressed that they try to push everyone way when really they just need help and don't even know how to ask yet???