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WMD is very right here......I have been thinking about it a bit myself.....being all alone in life now......thinking that I was angry at my Mother for being her normal stupid self & ignoring her cancer for so long that it ended up killing her.....I can hang onto that anger, or I can choose to let it go & enjoy my life that doesn't need to dwell on the negative.......what is past is past....what is done is over & done with.....there is no going back & changing anything......we have to live in the now.
There comes a time when we have to put a period on it & get on with our lives.....they chose to live their lives & do with their lives what they wanted.....we have to do the same......what is the point is dwelling in the memories of what is past....over....gone.....it is what it is & it was what is was....nothing can change that.....but we can change our own lives & make sure we have learned what lessons we needed from the past & leave it at that.....going on & making a beautiful life for ourselves.......maybe the beautiful life we are grieving they can't be part of.....but why should we deny ourselves happiness because of their choices?
Good point made with a period,
Debbie
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Leo's favorite place was in the passenger seat of my truck. We went everywhere together like this.
Leo my soulmate will live in my heart FOREVER Nov 1, 2002 - Dec 16, 2018
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