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Old Jul 18, 2009, 05:29 AM
Emotionally Dead Emotionally Dead is offline
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Awww... I know how this feels.. The girl of my dreams who I dated for a year is now with someone else I believe. She tries to deny it, but she is always flirting with him and told me how perfect he is and that she loves him.. It is so hard.. I know that more than anyone. Love sucks, it really does.. It causes a lot of pain and heartache..

I only have small advice for you. The best way to deal with this, and it's been said numerous times, is to date someone else yourself. The best cure to get over someone, is to be with someone. Just make sure you let them know that you got out of a tough relationship, and you aren't sure if you're ready for a long-term emotional one. I know it's hard, but you have to move on.. I am trying too. I'm in the same vote as you. I sit here and cry just reading these things because it reminds me of my ex.. However, you never know what is going to happen.. Perhaps both of you dating someone else will make you fall for each other again some time, and maybe you'll have him/her back.. Wish you the best, and if you need someone else who just had a bad breakup to talk to let me know.
Thanks for this!
Shangrala