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Old Jul 18, 2009, 10:11 AM
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Welshie

Welcome to PC and congrats on your first post. I am not clear, do you actually flirt with gaymen or do you realise that it would be a waste of time. I have a few female friends who are no that into sexual relations with men and prefer the "safe" relationship they have with me as sex is never an issue, as far as I can tell. Is it once you hear a bloke is Gay that you then fancy him or do you fancy the whole gay idea or are you just looking for a no strings attached friend? You are only going to create more problems for your self (((((Welshie)))) looking in an area where love will not be requited.

You say that any decent straight lads dont look your way, I may also not be George Clooney and yeah it took time to find the right person but I did in the end. I just relaxed, stopped looking, started to like myself a bit and that boosted my self confidence a bit and I didnt bother whether I turned heads or not.


Dont be too hard on yourself

Thanks

Paddy

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